So he/she has been cheating on you and you stick around, saw all the evidences and turned a blind eye like as though life goes on.
She/he goes out with her/his friends and you probably don't like his/her social setting and maybe, just maybe he/she is attracted to someone in that circle and eventually a relationship is pursued, probably for fun but you got trapped. Or you hear her/his phone rings one too many times and nervously answers, "Wrong number":-), or he/she boldly answers and chats the caller on the phone with no consideration for your feelings and it goes on and on with the reasons why relationships run into trouble.
Probably quarrels happens frequently in the home for 'unknown' reason, sometimes so that you can leave the home (excuse) to be with that person, the 'cheatee' and continue your rendezvous.. Those kind of relationships do not have real substance in it and it's mostly on a physical/sexual level. How can you be happy when you are dodging to avoid being caught? Why would you chose to remain in such a relationship, such belittling of yourself and self-esteem?
Come on lady/mister you deserve so much better. You deserve to be happy, much happier. If you are not happy why should you and why do you stay?
I recently read of an incident regarding a couple who had split because of cheating. One of the parties went on with their life and started another relationship. The former partner was not happy about that other relationship and stalked her and injured her. What a pity.
We must learn to walk away from toxic relationship. Remaining in it longer is putting yourself at risk as bitterness, anger and probably fights whether physical or verbal can occur and that can get pretty nasty. I have zero tolerance for violence or abuse of any kind.
We are simply here to compliment each other, we don't possess each other. When relationships do not work out, look at it in a positive way. Maybe something/one better is in store for you; just maybe. Who knows? You won't know until you let go off your past and turn a new page.
You don't need to threaten, stalk or belittle each other like some do after break ups. Be man or woman enough to concede. Know your worth and know when it is time to walk away and move on.
She/he goes out with her/his friends and you probably don't like his/her social setting and maybe, just maybe he/she is attracted to someone in that circle and eventually a relationship is pursued, probably for fun but you got trapped. Or you hear her/his phone rings one too many times and nervously answers, "Wrong number":-), or he/she boldly answers and chats the caller on the phone with no consideration for your feelings and it goes on and on with the reasons why relationships run into trouble.
Probably quarrels happens frequently in the home for 'unknown' reason, sometimes so that you can leave the home (excuse) to be with that person, the 'cheatee' and continue your rendezvous.. Those kind of relationships do not have real substance in it and it's mostly on a physical/sexual level. How can you be happy when you are dodging to avoid being caught? Why would you chose to remain in such a relationship, such belittling of yourself and self-esteem?
Come on lady/mister you deserve so much better. You deserve to be happy, much happier. If you are not happy why should you and why do you stay?
I recently read of an incident regarding a couple who had split because of cheating. One of the parties went on with their life and started another relationship. The former partner was not happy about that other relationship and stalked her and injured her. What a pity.
We must learn to walk away from toxic relationship. Remaining in it longer is putting yourself at risk as bitterness, anger and probably fights whether physical or verbal can occur and that can get pretty nasty. I have zero tolerance for violence or abuse of any kind.
We are simply here to compliment each other, we don't possess each other. When relationships do not work out, look at it in a positive way. Maybe something/one better is in store for you; just maybe. Who knows? You won't know until you let go off your past and turn a new page.
You don't need to threaten, stalk or belittle each other like some do after break ups. Be man or woman enough to concede. Know your worth and know when it is time to walk away and move on.
Why Did You Lie To Me
Thought I'd Never Find Out About Your Trickery
You Hang Around Like You Care
But I Can Tell You Want To Be Elsewhere
If You're Not Happy With Me Don't Play Me For A Fool
Your Cheating Has Me Feeling So Uncool
With All Your Rantings And Your Ravings
And Your Uncontrollable Cravings
You Flirt Around So Publicly For Everyone To See
Why Don't You Leave Me Alone And Set Me Free
Stop Pretending That You Are In Love With Me
I Can Tell By Your Actions That There Ain't No 'We'
I'll Tell You What, I Am Leaving
I Won't Take Anymore Of Your Cheating
You Are A Big Shame And Disgrace, You Are A Flirt
I'm Leaving You, You Ain't My Worth
Written by DC Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/28 All rights reserved
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