MAKING A FRESH START

This is for all the sistas who get mistreated by a brotha, probably he thinks your time has ran out, you've become 'extinct' and had used you for his purpose until a fresher prey comes along or have decided to leave you after years of commitment and settle down with another. I am being mindful, that some women do some really awful things to guys also. Some do it out of spite; the 'Peter will pay for Paul' mentality or simply because they may be cold-hearted.

I wrote this because this is real life situations that happen everyday to women who have to literally start all over sometimes without the financial help from deadbeat fathers.

Kudos to all the great fathers who find it important to keep a family together despite all the temptations out there. Whether they stayed or not, most importantly is that they remained part of their kids lives.

Your kids need you, don't get caught up in your misguided sexual emotions; your biggest weakness, and desert your kids. A woman can leave you in a blink but your kids are your kids, your blood. Women, I beg you, don't spite a strayed guy by keeping his kids away from him, don't let the kids pay by not allowing them to see their dads. Kids suffer because of all your foolishness and selfishness. That's emotionally draining and unstable for kids.

Don't get caught in self-pity. No one is worth fighting for, none; whether man or woman.

Know your worth.

Thrive on, it is not the end of the world.

"The silence of a woman's tongue is more piercing than the words of a bitter and hurt woman"...Dc Perez

Why Did You Run Out On A Sista
Yes The One Who Bore Your Babies For Ya
You Cheated On Her, You Beat On Her
And Discard Of Her Like She Was Litter
You Left Her With All Your Kids Crying And Never Looked Back
While She Stuck Around And Took Up All Your Slack
Respect The Lady Who Has Your Back

You Continued On Your Trail Of Deception
With Little and No Intimidation
On To The Next Unsuspecting Sista
Who Thinks You Are A Thriller
But What She Doesn't Know Is That You Are A Traitor
A Bad Reflector Of All The Good Men
Which Get Blame All Because Of A Few Of Your Men
Though Created By The Involvement And Temptation Of These Women
Who Had Incarcerated Your Notorious Mind
But Guys Like Your Kind Will Get Left Behind
Standing In Line, Probably Paying A Fine

You See The Cycle You Continue And That Has You Subdued
Is Part Of Your Mentality And Trap Guys Like You
Your Distorted View Of Your Unflattering Leanings
Probably Came From Your Terrible Upbringing
Your Influences And Your Stinking Mindset
That You See Women As Your Toys And Pet
And You Can Do With Them What Suit You Best
Well I Got News For You Cause A Self-Confident Sista
Won't Settle For That Kind Of Brotha,
She Would Not Settle For Your Crap
While You Mind Is Caught In That Warp

You See I Won't Give You Another Chance
Not Even To Romance Me, My Body
Because I Am Worth More Than What's In Your Pants
So From Today I'll Take A Stance
You Will No Longer Be Part Of My Life,
I Won't Be Caught Up In Your Strife
Cause Your Love Cuts My Heart Like A Piercing Knife
Way Down Deep In My Heart And Soul,
I No Longer Love You, My Love For You Has Ran Cold

You Believe You Are My Joy And Steam
You're A Killer To My Joy, My Self-Esteem
I Am Suppose To Be And Feel Like Your Queen
Instead You Treated Me So Evil And Mean
But I Will Get Better, I'm Going To Strive Harder
To Be The Woman I've Always Been And Carried Inside
Not The One Whom You Chose To Hide
I Will Embrace The Woman That Makes Me Shine
I Am Leaving You Now And My Past Behind
I Will No Longer Be Your Tool, You're No Longer My Kind

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/26 All the rights reserved