LEARN TO WALK AWAY

So he/she has been cheating on you and you stick around, saw all the evidences and turned a blind eye like as though life goes on.

She/he goes out with her/his friends and you probably don't like his/her social setting and maybe, just maybe he/she is attracted to someone in that circle and eventually a relationship is pursued, probably for fun but you got trapped. Or you hear her/his phone rings one too many times and nervously answers, "Wrong number":-), or he/she boldly answers and chats the caller on the phone with no consideration for your feelings and it goes on and on with the reasons why relationships run into trouble.

Probably quarrels happens frequently in the home for 'unknown' reason, sometimes so that you can leave the home (excuse) to be with that person, the 'cheatee' and continue your rendezvous.. Those kind of relationships do not have real substance in it and it's mostly on a physical/sexual level. How can you be happy when you are dodging to avoid being caught? Why would you chose to remain in such a relationship, such belittling of yourself and self-esteem?

Come on lady/mister you deserve so much better. You deserve to be happy, much happier. If you are not happy why should you and why do you stay?

I recently read of an incident regarding a couple who had split because of cheating. One of the parties went on with their life and started another relationship. The former partner was not happy about that other relationship and stalked her and injured her. What a pity.

We must learn to walk away from toxic relationship. Remaining in it longer is putting yourself at risk as bitterness, anger and probably fights whether physical or verbal can occur and that can get pretty nasty. I have zero tolerance for violence or abuse of any kind.

We are simply here to compliment each other, we don't possess each other. When relationships do not work out, look at it in a positive way. Maybe something/one better is in store for you; just maybe. Who knows? You won't know until you let go off your past and turn a new page.

You don't need to threaten, stalk or belittle each other like some do after break ups. Be man or woman enough to concede. Know your worth and know when it is time to walk away and move on.

Why Did You Lie To Me
Thought I'd Never Find Out About Your Trickery
You Hang Around Like You Care
But I Can Tell You Want To Be Elsewhere

If You're Not Happy With Me Don't Play Me For A Fool
Your Cheating Has Me Feeling So Uncool
With All Your Rantings And Your Ravings
And Your Uncontrollable Cravings

You Flirt Around So Publicly For Everyone To See
Why Don't You Leave Me Alone And Set Me Free
Stop Pretending That You Are In Love With Me
I Can Tell By Your Actions That There Ain't No 'We'

I'll Tell You What, I Am Leaving
I Won't Take Anymore Of Your Cheating
You Are A Big Shame And Disgrace, You Are A Flirt
I'm Leaving You, You Ain't My Worth

Written by DC Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/28 All rights reserved

MAKING A FRESH START

This is for all the sistas who get mistreated by a brotha, probably he thinks your time has ran out, you've become 'extinct' and had used you for his purpose until a fresher prey comes along or have decided to leave you after years of commitment and settle down with another. I am being mindful, that some women do some really awful things to guys also. Some do it out of spite; the 'Peter will pay for Paul' mentality or simply because they may be cold-hearted.

I wrote this because this is real life situations that happen everyday to women who have to literally start all over sometimes without the financial help from deadbeat fathers.

Kudos to all the great fathers who find it important to keep a family together despite all the temptations out there. Whether they stayed or not, most importantly is that they remained part of their kids lives.

Your kids need you, don't get caught up in your misguided sexual emotions; your biggest weakness, and desert your kids. A woman can leave you in a blink but your kids are your kids, your blood. Women, I beg you, don't spite a strayed guy by keeping his kids away from him, don't let the kids pay by not allowing them to see their dads. Kids suffer because of all your foolishness and selfishness. That's emotionally draining and unstable for kids.

Don't get caught in self-pity. No one is worth fighting for, none; whether man or woman.

Know your worth.

Thrive on, it is not the end of the world.

"The silence of a woman's tongue is more piercing than the words of a bitter and hurt woman"...Dc Perez

Why Did You Run Out On A Sista
Yes The One Who Bore Your Babies For Ya
You Cheated On Her, You Beat On Her
And Discard Of Her Like She Was Litter
You Left Her With All Your Kids Crying And Never Looked Back
While She Stuck Around And Took Up All Your Slack
Respect The Lady Who Has Your Back

You Continued On Your Trail Of Deception
With Little and No Intimidation
On To The Next Unsuspecting Sista
Who Thinks You Are A Thriller
But What She Doesn't Know Is That You Are A Traitor
A Bad Reflector Of All The Good Men
Which Get Blame All Because Of A Few Of Your Men
Though Created By The Involvement And Temptation Of These Women
Who Had Incarcerated Your Notorious Mind
But Guys Like Your Kind Will Get Left Behind
Standing In Line, Probably Paying A Fine

You See The Cycle You Continue And That Has You Subdued
Is Part Of Your Mentality And Trap Guys Like You
Your Distorted View Of Your Unflattering Leanings
Probably Came From Your Terrible Upbringing
Your Influences And Your Stinking Mindset
That You See Women As Your Toys And Pet
And You Can Do With Them What Suit You Best
Well I Got News For You Cause A Self-Confident Sista
Won't Settle For That Kind Of Brotha,
She Would Not Settle For Your Crap
While You Mind Is Caught In That Warp

You See I Won't Give You Another Chance
Not Even To Romance Me, My Body
Because I Am Worth More Than What's In Your Pants
So From Today I'll Take A Stance
You Will No Longer Be Part Of My Life,
I Won't Be Caught Up In Your Strife
Cause Your Love Cuts My Heart Like A Piercing Knife
Way Down Deep In My Heart And Soul,
I No Longer Love You, My Love For You Has Ran Cold

You Believe You Are My Joy And Steam
You're A Killer To My Joy, My Self-Esteem
I Am Suppose To Be And Feel Like Your Queen
Instead You Treated Me So Evil And Mean
But I Will Get Better, I'm Going To Strive Harder
To Be The Woman I've Always Been And Carried Inside
Not The One Whom You Chose To Hide
I Will Embrace The Woman That Makes Me Shine
I Am Leaving You Now And My Past Behind
I Will No Longer Be Your Tool, You're No Longer My Kind

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/26 All the rights reserved

BE KIND TO ONE ANOTHER

How often you have helped someone who needed directions, probably lost their way and you were willing to help them by taking them all the way to their destination if not take time out to show them the way. Maybe you said it in words, showed in in deed or simply smiled and made someone’s day, yes there is kindness in a smile.

I must say I’ve met some really kind and nice people so far on my journey. Don’t let the unkind ones outweigh the kind ones. When you find a very kind one, it makes up 100 folds more for the unkind ones.Yes one kind act could wipe away all the unkind acts that were done to you, if you are not the type who holds on to bitterness.

I remember getting on a flight many years ago to conduct business in a particular country for the very first time and I met this kind middle-aged gentleman on a connecting flight with whom I had a conversation with me on the aircraft as he was seated next to me, and during that conversation he asked me where I was going, which I told him, when we got of the aircraft his son and daughter was awaiting him at the airport as he was a national of that country, co-incidentally ( there’s no co-incidence, nothing just happen:-o) I was going in his direction.

Although I’d never been to that country before, he requested that he took me straight to the business place I had to conduct business with and patiently waited for me. He actually booked me a room at the hotel and he called to make sure I was alright everyday, and even wanted to pay for the room, which I refused as I had already did. He also suggested that he took me back to the airport after I concluded my business which he did. As though he was a relative looking after me to make sure I was safe always.

All those moments in the back of my head I was wondering if he had ulterior motives as all women with intuition would feel, but he surprised me with his “gentlemanly’ attitude; What a gentleman! The average man would have seen me as ‘prey’. I kept in touch with him throughout the years like a father and daughter would.

I was perplexed by the whole episode, a complete stranger took me under his wings like a daughter and protected me from the beginning of my journey to my departure. What a gentleman he was. He felt like an angel in disguise and that’s exactly how I saw him. Not everyone can boast of an experience like that as most people has ulterior motives. All I can reminisce of is his kindness and goodness from a complete stranger; an angel. May God bless him always.

There are still many kind people around. The problem is we take their kindness for granted and some who see themselves as being used, become bitter and stone-hearted towards others. Treat everyone as who they are, not based on bad experiences with someone else. Don’t let Peter pay for Paul simply because of some bad experiences in the past. Learn from your experience and grow from it. Be kind to one another.

A Little Bit Of Kindness Goes A Long, Long Way
It Would Not Hurt But Brighten Someone’s Day
Why Can’t You Help A Hurt And Fallen Brother
Help Him To Rise Again, Please Don’t Leave Him To Falter
We Should Always Be Kind And Loving To One Another
Our Kind Words, Deeds And Thoughts Will Repay Us Later
Be Pleasing And Helpful In Everything You Do
Because Kindness Has A Way Of Returning Back To You

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/24 All rights reserved

OUR TRUTHS……Our lives based on rules and philosophy

Do you live your life based on books, rules, philosophies or your life’s lessons/teachings? I am not saying that the contents of a book which may be inspiring can not be followed but many people can’t survive without advice or base their lives on being spoon-fed with knowledge but knowledge sometimes come from experiences and it’s waiting to be reveal only if you listen to that still voice within you, the voice of wisdom.

Your greatest teacher is your life experiences which include everyone you came in contact with.
There are some people who are ’set’ in their ways and know no other way to live than the one they were spoon-fed from childhood, the inbred and ingrown way. They shut their minds to anything else that what they were taught and to reasoning and be caught up in their own world, their reality or illusion.

You possess most of the info to take you through life by all these experiences, some were taught and they were meant for you as food for thoughts to guide you on your journey, but do we seek it by going inward and searching ourselves? Our answers silently awaits us in the core of our being. However, there is a new lesson to be learnt everyday.

I remembered every time a friend and I had a discussion, the thought of ‘I read in a book that’… comes from his mouth and it goes on and on and an argument ensues because the conversation was based on someone’s philosophy that was spoon fed into his mentality. Not that I dismissed the teachings in a book but I wanted to hear from that person, their personal opinion, their personal view and understanding.

You can change a situation if you want to, it’s a mindset. You don’t need to always follow a rule of thumb. It means everything we were taught and learned can be unlearned. It’s sometimes our brain-drain/washed attitude that keeps us stagnant.

I am of the opinion that we all should leave our baggage behind in entering others lives, and to him that was/is impossible, I assume he wanted the best of both worlds. His response was how do you do that as it was impossible to him.

He entered every partner’s life without closing the door of his former episode in his life, only to continue his trail. He couldn’t understand the importance of closing doors, leaving baggage behind, as he always revert to his past experiences when things went unstable for him. Phisssh!!

He never gave his new partner a fair chance hence the relationship never lasted as he carried all his untamed and unresolved emotions into another relationship. Both sexes are guilty of it, a grave mistake.

Leaving your past behind, doesn’t mean shutting off everyone or circumstances that were part of your life but letting go off a chapter in your life to move on to another chapter, even though that chapter was a determining factor in getting to this point at where you are at now. You must break free and see them as lessons learned. Let go off the things that will put a damper on your life and relationship after weighing all the consequences.

As you will realize, you’ll meet lots of people on your journey in life; some will leave beautiful memories, others won’t but you must move on. The trouble is, many remain stuck in the past; their hurts and even the good memories that may even stagnate their lives because those good memories linger, though it was meant to be part of the experience but it hampers and stagnates you from moving on as you dwell on the past.

How does one leave their baggage behind? I believe to make a clean start one has to. You don’t get amnesia but you learn to let go because on entering others lives with your illusive memories, you may be jeopardizing your relationship with another probably comparing them to someone else, which is unfair as everyone brings a different flavor to the table. The moment you have a misunderstanding you resort to the former relationship though it’s ended, get over it.

I am the type who believe in seeking the ultimate truth, always. No longer am I being spoon-fed information how it was passed down from generation to generation and that cycle continues with the brain draining and then we continue to teach our kids the same, the only difference now is that kids do not simply swallow what you teach them, they’ll dare and challenge you.

I can write you a book of information on how to be positive, you can follow or you can sift through what is being taught to you, it means that what I feed to you as knowledge must be tried and tested to be gospel and ultimate truth for you. I try to be open-mined at all times which is literally leaving doors open to learn something new and listen to others point of view even if it doesn’t match mine.

I believe that we are guided by rules and philosophies of and through life, and hence we believe there is a rule of thumb of ‘how to’ do things or we will fail, not saying you shouldn’t abide by rules. What may have worked for me, may not work for you even though it is my ideal way.

What are your inspiration, your niche, your aspirations, who/what influences you? You should be your biggest inspiration; not saying no one shouldn’t inspire you but be your biggest inspiration and motivator. Have you found your purpose through your life story and not through a book. I can continue to inspire and encourage you but you must find your way in life on your own, by finding your purpose.

Most of us live our lives based on rules and philosophy, which becomes our truth. Is it really the truth, the ultimate truth? Is it your truth and does it work for you? What if your and my truth is really an illusion, something we created in our minds. This is another topic to get into in another note.

I chose to survive in my truths, if it works for me positively.

I Look through life with a golden view all the time.

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/23. All rights reserved

REDEEM YOURSELF….....with these ten letters; I APOLOGIZE

Finding it hard to apologize probably you are hard to forgive as well? Apologizing is forgiving yourself and forgiving others. Redeem yourself, remove that heavy cloud over your head and life.

When you find yourself in situations that may have created havoc in others lives even though it was not intentional, be the first to apologize. It curbs bitterness and hostility and it can be corrected with these ten letters; I APOLOGIZE.

You see, I don’t have no pride when it comes to apologizing and forgiving. I’ve learned to forgive others long before they have forgiven themselves. It’s a beautiful feeling, a redeemed feeling, the forgiving feeling. I can now moved on as my spirit is now soaring and no longer is stifled. A joyful feeling.

I’ve watched people who simply can’t accept an apology because their hearts are already closed to that person and what they have done to them. In my opinion, it doesn’t matter if someone did not forgive me for my wrongs done to them, as long as I forgive myself and ask for their forgiveness, that is all that matters because my heart is no longer tormented anymore. They would be the one carrying that tormented, bitter spirit. What a pity! I would have redeemed myself by apologizing to them from my heart. You redeem yourself every time you apologize.

These words are healing, when it’s meant in-depth and from your heart because some can say they apologize and not mean it but says it to appease another. It’s the easiest words for some who genuinely and not so genuinely means it. A cop-out for some.

So many times we have hurt someone to the core of their heart and souls and have never express remorse about what was done and that person has died with a heavy heart because even that person never learned to forgive, apologize and move on. What a heavy spirit to leave this world with.

To me, apologizing is a s easy as ABC when you have an open heart, love unconditional, carry that inner peace, and possess a compassionate spirit, its not a hard thing to say. You apologize even if the other doesn’t forgive you, it’s important to let go off all tormenting feelings and move on.

I write this note because I know what apologizing did for me, it set my mind/spirit free and so did the spirit of another.

There is so much to apologize for. Free your mind and make a change and difference today in someone’s life, starting with yourself first.

However, I make no apology for writing this note to make you change your mind about something you’ve been carrying in your heart against someone or something offending that you did to someone for a long time. Apologize to them now:-))

Redeem yourself. Set your mind free.

I love you always. Hugs

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/19

ALL IS NOT LOST…Find the strength to carry on when others ‘fail’ you

Have you ever been hurt or wounded deeply by a close friend, family, partner, lover or spouse? You dwell on it so long that you actually lost weight, your desire to eat, to socialize or even love yourself. You believe you have lost a good friend and they have walked out of your life and you can’t go on. You are so absorb into that disappointed feeling, blaming yourself and probably hating yourself and the person as well and even the ones who has nothing to do with those ill feelings you are feeling.

I believe that people really do come into your life for a purpose, nothing just happens. they are and were meant to be part of your life and existence here on earth. Everyone is purposeful in your life, even if they ‘wrecked’ your life.

The point I am getting at is, it may or may not be your fault that that friendship has ended, it simply had to end whether it was something you did or didn’t do. The life span of that friendship has expired, two ships passing in the night kinda feeling, you met them on your journey in life, and as you’ve realize when someone dies, you don’t die with them. They enter this world alone and leave alone, be grateful for the privilege to share their lives which help you grow and taught you the lessons meant only for your trip here and the purpose of that friendship.

Don’t believe it’s the end of the world, the next person you meet after that person ‘departs’ from your life is also coming to your life to teach you another lesson. Sometimes we are going to be taught a lesson over and over until we get it right. These are the ones who do things the same way over and over and they do not learn nor grow from it, sometimes it is being taught to them until they get it right or sometimes that lesson becomes extinct and the person perishes in the process, end of the lesson.

Don’t dwell on hurts too long, they are important lessons and see them as only that. Sometimes you may exclaim, why did I let this person into my life, they’ve wrecked your life? Think back to the time you first met that person what joy they brought you but your joy was temporary this is just a reminder to you that your joy lives within you and not dependent on anyone.

You must learn and discipline yourself and your mind that you don’t make the minds of others, they can change their minds at anytime when least expected without notice. Your reaction is that of pain, hurt and disappointment and it’s ok to feel that way because we are emotional beings. However, I see them as lessons, valid lessons.

I remember I was going through some trying times in my life sometime ago and a friend who I believed in (another mistake to do) believe in yourself not place your belief in others, remember you are not in control of another person’s mind; that person was not within my reach, to reach me where I was at in that trying moment in my life; not a word of comfort, not a ‘it’ll be ok’, I simply wanted to vent, to talk out my feelings at that moment and I said to myself and reminded myself that I can really do this game of life by myself because I had learned to do it all by myself in my solitude so many times before they entered my life. Some will break while others will look at it positively. I stop believing that my problems can be solve by others and found my answers lying within me. People are in your life to enhance your life not to control your life, your life is your responsibility.

I am not saying you don’t need anyone to be there for you to guide you through but there will be times when your world comes crashing down on you and you can’t find anyone to light a candle for you until you see your way and make it around the bend and up the hill. Remember that before you met them they were physically non-existent and you got to tarry on whether they slip in or out of your life.

We need each other, we compliment each other but when there is no one to be there for you in ways you’d like them to be you must find the strength within yourself to tarry on. In the midst of that journey you are being taught a lesson but most tend to dwell on the negative feeling from that episode in their life and it overshadows the intended purpose of that person in their life. Lesson, lesson, lessons! main purpose.

All is not lost. Find the strength to carry on when others fail you or wound your heart deeply, they haven’t really failed you, it’s simply a test of your strength in enduring a test being place before you. It seriously teaches you that we all have our own burdens to bear, others come into our lives to assist and ease some of that burden. Some may say that some people add to their burdens but we must carry our own crosses, our lives are our sole responsibility, it’s how well we travel that journey that makes us complete the journey.

The fact that you took your time to read this means I’m part of your journey. I hope I have been and can be a blessing in your life. You are gong to met many more others on your journey who will propel you unto better things. Don’t worry. Don’t be afraid of the negatives ones, they are also there as part of your journey to encourage you to triumph over them. The perfect lesson.

So DON’T KEEP BLAMING YOURSELF FOR YOUR DISAPPOINTMENTS IN LIFE AND LIVE IN SELF-PITY. SIMPLY TARRY ON, TURN THE PAGE AND READ ON. More lessons to come.
Happy journeying
I love you.

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/18. All rights reserved.

DON’T MISTAKE ME FOR YOUR DELICACY…Game Done!

There are some guys who see an unsuspecting and sometimes insecure and vulnerable female as their intended target for’ fair’ game, chances are she may turn it around on him.

I must say this poem can swing either way, both male and female but more so female as they are more affected.

Some women also prey on some ‘nice men’ vulnerabilities; weakness, sweetness whether for financial gains or simply because they see them as someone to ‘use and discard’ when they’ve had their fills. So I’m going to keep it real here…

Don’t Mistake My Subtlety For Your Delicacy
I’m Not A Sista Who Will Play Your Silly Game Of Trivia
You See, I’d Been Led And Been Fed
No Longer Will I Be Caught In A Web
This Web Of Your Triviality
Cause I’m In Tune With My Sexuality And Sensuality
And Know My Intuitiveness Is Too Powerful For Your Frivolity

Don’t Think Of Playing Me For A Fool
Cause You’d Be Left Holding Your Tool
Only Fools Play On Their Insecurities
And Get Blinded By Their Curiosity
To Be Trapped In Their World Of Mediocrity
I Can Sense From A Million Miles Your Ingenuity

So I Beg You, Don’t Get Caught
Because You Will Be Setting Your Own Trap
Don’t Ever Believe You Have Got Me Trapped
Cause I Ain’t Gonna Be Your Prey
Not In Your Fantasy Not Even For Just One Day
Thought You Can Prey On My Vulnerabilities And Insecurities
Well Honey I Ain’t Got Nothing To Be Insecure About

You See I’m Way Ahead Of Your Game
Cause I’d Been Played This Game Before
By Some Fool Who Didn’t Understand The Rule
The Rule That If You Played This Game Wrong
You’d Be Defeated By A Sista Who Is Strong
In Intellect, Intuition And Knows Her Position
Graced With Beauty, Passion And Wisdom

I Am Not Meaning To Belittle Your Manhood
But To Make Sure That I’m Not Misunderstood
And Mistaken For Your Playground For Your Misguided Notions
In Which You Have Created This Inevitable Commotion
So The Game You Intending To Play On Me
Sure Will Backfire On You, You See

So Brotha, Don’t Be Mistaken By This Sista’s Subtlety
Don’t Mistake It For Frivolity
Cause I’m Always Ahead Of Your Game
Bow Out Now And Step Out Of My Lane
Or Your Reward Will Be In The Hall Of Shame
You’re An Impostor, Trying To Fool a Sista

I Ain’t Nobody’s Toy And Fool
Go Away And Take With You, Your Tool
You Thought Your Tool Was Cool, Well It ain’t That Cool
And Had The Power To Devour My Desire
I Know My Worth And I’m Priceless
I Guess I Have Now Left You Clueless
Your Silly Game You’ll Never Win With Me
Cause You Set A Trap And Instead You Got Caught
I’m Too Way Ahead Of Your Game And Fun
Way, Way Ahead Of Your Game. Game Done!

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted ©2009/09/15

POOR VISION......…Excellent eyesight

Are you looking and seeing life as it appears before you; maybe an illusion you created which became your reality? Many possess excellent eyesight but few have great vision that enables them to stare the world in its eyes and see beyond their illusion.

APPRECIATING THE BEAUTY AND PURPOSE OF EVERYTHING

I am inspired to write this poem as my son was disgruntled because he wanted to go outside and play but the rain started falling and to his dismay he exclaimed, ‘Look how the rain has messed up my day!'

The short poem is my response to him. He knows me so well, the moment I start forming rhyme to what he just said to me. He immediately said to me, ‘Mummy, why not make this into a poem? So this poem is candidly put together by both my son, Enrique and I.

LIFE IS AN INSPIRATION. EVERYTHING IS AN INSPIRATION, IT DEPENDS ON HOW YOU LOOK AT LIFE.

The Rain Falls For Whoever Needs It
With Every Drop It Echoes,
Here I Am For Whoever Needs Me
The Sun Shines For Whoever Needs It
With Every Ray That Shines It Says
Here I Am For Who Ever Needs Me

From The lips of The Disgruntled, He Whispers
The Rain Has Fallen And Messed Up My Day
While To Another He Sees It In A Positive Way
The Sun Shines With Such Scorching Rays
To Another He’s Glad His Work Won’t Be Delayed

So You See A Curse To You May Be A Blessing To Another
Appreciate All Of Earth’s Greatest Wonders
Simply Be Thankful For The Moon, The Stars, The Rain And Sun
Because They All Play A Part For Everyone

Laugh, Play, Smile; In The Rain, The Moon, The Stars And The Sun
A Lifetime Of Fun Has Just Begun

Written by Dc Perez & Miguel Enrique ©2009/09/12

SOUL EMBRACE

I remembered telling a guy who was very interested in me romantically; whether it was lust or love, I couldn’t tell as I never pursued the relationship. We both laughed when I said to him, the guy who falls in love with me, has to be tested and I used the line,” Are you feeling my soul, or are you sensing my soul?” I told him I needed to feel the same, was I feeling his soul?

It wasn’t about surface lustful feelings, it was about love beyond the surface, are you feeling my soul?…:-))

Love goes beyond loving in the physical, can you feel me here? I do believe, it’s way down to the soul…

When you find that someone who feels your soul like you do theirs; your vibration, aura, grab them gently and absorb them, it might be that once in a lifetime you get that chance to experience that.

Don’t you ever longed to have that experience and to be loved beyond the physical or intimately? ‘Soulistic’ love is blissful, it’s certainly inexplicable and only you can tell when you meet that someone that explore and fits comfortable in unison with your soul, way past the physical presence that you see with the eyes.

Are you feeling my soul, can you feel my soul?

Hence the reason for this poem.

You enshrine me
You embrace me
You define me
You envelop me
Am I feeling your soul?

You are my wings
I am your wind
You help me to rise
Your presence has me hypnotized
I am feeling your soul

Your serenity astounds me
You are my refuge, my comfort
I feel you, I welcome you
I get lost in you, your vibration
I am feeling your soul

Your aura encircles me
From the core of your essence
To the stillness of your presence
I am fully absorbed into you
I am feeling your soul

The purity of your soul
Speaks to me so echoing yet gentle
Way down into the depth of my being
I look at you and I’m speechless
I am feeling your soul

No words, no breath, no air
Just your stillness of your being
Our souls speaking to each other
In an unknown and inexplicable language
I am feeling your soul

Are you sensing me?
Are you feeling me?
I am feeling you
I am feeling your soul
The purity of your soul

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted © 2009/07/22

Oh yes and this is on wax, in the process of making my album:-)

Shhh!!…BE SILENT AND LISTEN

Are You Listening With Your Ear Only? Be Silent And Listen To The Echoes Of Your Inner Voice; Your Inner Guide….Your Wisdom

LEAVE YOUR GARBAGE AT THE DUMP…..Where it should be

Anyone who’s thinking of making a fresh new start, I beg you to leave all your dirty linens, baggage at the dump, don’t even think of bringing it near the door of the ‘entrance to the new home’ in your life and heart.

You see, I’ve heard so many said they have made a new start, new life and still hang to the remnants of their past episodes in their lives, making it a continued series and their past continues to ruin their present life and relationships with others.

Are you putting one foot through that new door and still leaving the other one on the outside, is it fear or you don’t trust yourself? Some may say that they trust no one, oh what a sad way to live. Yes there are ‘gremlins’ out there waiting to use and devour you, nothing is wrong with having a little air of caution about you but if one base their present life on their past experiences they’ll get no where as you’d be stuck in the past with all your fears; your ‘if I only knew.

‘If I only knew’, was meant to be a lesson even though it was a cruel and harsh lesson. I’ve had my share of disappointments but I’ve decided to make an appointment instead with my destiny. I don’t cry over spilled milk instead I wipe it off, clean that ‘table’ or ‘floor’ of my life so that I don’t slip and fall over that spill, walk over that part where the milk was spilled but now dried. And move on. Do you get my drift?:-))

Learn to close doors in your life instead of hanging on to the knobs, let it go, slam that door and push open the other one. Don’t look back; look back to only pleasant memories and if you can smile at a lesson. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. The journey won’t end until your last breath, and should you encounter challenges don’t become despondent, learn from these challenges/lessons and move on.

That’s what I do, I do have my unhappy moments, but I challenge them every time. Those moments will not win and don’t last forever. Don’t let them win. Happiness is a state of mind.

I am happy despite my challenges. I am at peace with myself. The world will always have its echoes of confusions but singularly one must find their inner peace in the midst of it and thrive on or you’d be devoured by it.

Learn to be happy with yourself before sharing yourself with anyone. That’s important or you’d see life and people through the negative eyes you are enveloped in. Don’t step into people’s lives with all your garbage you’d only stagnate their life. Even if they are a good person, you’d find everything wrong with them, masking everything wrong with you and place that insecurities unto that person without realizing you’re doing so.

Love yourself, so you can love others unconditionally. Hugs.

Why Do You Walk Through My Door
With All Your Baggage Lying On The Floor
I Say Clean It Up And Put It At The Dump
Don’t Carry With You All Your Life’s Thumps And Bumps

You Want To Make A New Start In Life
I Beg You Let Go Off All Your Past And Strife
I Don’t Need Your Crowded Space And Past
I Only Need To Make A Fresh New Start

If You’re Planning To Crowd Me In
I Suggest You Search Yourself Deep Within
Let Go Of All Your Folly And Misconceptions
And Face Life Head On Without Retrogression

Your Happiness In Life Depends On Your Now
You Made It Through Your Past Somehow
Place Your Confidence In Your Now And Today
Forget What Others Did Or What They Would Say

I Don’t Need Your Insecurities
Cause in your Hands You Hold The keys
The Keys To A bright And Promising Future
If You’d Only Stop Being Bitter

All You Need Is A Clean Slate To Write On
Not Your Past Which Keeps You Stagnant
Close Those Cracked And Broken Down Doors
And Move On To Face Your Brighter Tomorrows

~ Leave You Garbage At The Dump ~

Written by Dc Perez copyrighted 2009/09/10