REDEEM YOURSELF….....with these ten letters; I APOLOGIZE

Finding it hard to apologize probably you are hard to forgive as well? Apologizing is forgiving yourself and forgiving others. Redeem yourself, remove that heavy cloud over your head and life.

When you find yourself in situations that may have created havoc in others lives even though it was not intentional, be the first to apologize. It curbs bitterness and hostility and it can be corrected with these ten letters; I APOLOGIZE.

You see, I don’t have no pride when it comes to apologizing and forgiving. I’ve learned to forgive others long before they have forgiven themselves. It’s a beautiful feeling, a redeemed feeling, the forgiving feeling. I can now moved on as my spirit is now soaring and no longer is stifled. A joyful feeling.

I’ve watched people who simply can’t accept an apology because their hearts are already closed to that person and what they have done to them. In my opinion, it doesn’t matter if someone did not forgive me for my wrongs done to them, as long as I forgive myself and ask for their forgiveness, that is all that matters because my heart is no longer tormented anymore. They would be the one carrying that tormented, bitter spirit. What a pity! I would have redeemed myself by apologizing to them from my heart. You redeem yourself every time you apologize.

These words are healing, when it’s meant in-depth and from your heart because some can say they apologize and not mean it but says it to appease another. It’s the easiest words for some who genuinely and not so genuinely means it. A cop-out for some.

So many times we have hurt someone to the core of their heart and souls and have never express remorse about what was done and that person has died with a heavy heart because even that person never learned to forgive, apologize and move on. What a heavy spirit to leave this world with.

To me, apologizing is a s easy as ABC when you have an open heart, love unconditional, carry that inner peace, and possess a compassionate spirit, its not a hard thing to say. You apologize even if the other doesn’t forgive you, it’s important to let go off all tormenting feelings and move on.

I write this note because I know what apologizing did for me, it set my mind/spirit free and so did the spirit of another.

There is so much to apologize for. Free your mind and make a change and difference today in someone’s life, starting with yourself first.

However, I make no apology for writing this note to make you change your mind about something you’ve been carrying in your heart against someone or something offending that you did to someone for a long time. Apologize to them now:-))

Redeem yourself. Set your mind free.

I love you always. Hugs

Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/09/19