Are you caught up in the rapture of love or is it lust?
Have you ever found yourself thinking or attracted to someone and being drawn to that person for no distinct reason but simply lust? Have you ever found yourself falling in love probably for someone you wished later on you never did. Have you found yourself lusting for someone and do fall in love with them eventually and married them, happily ever after, fairy tale story and still going strong? Or was it love or lust?
Is there a far away contrast from lust and love? Or do they both compliment each other?
There are some who for some reason is caught up in relationship because of lust, nothing more to the relationship than good sex and a powerful attraction and chemistry.
However, I do believe, that you can lust after someone and fall in love with them, as long as you don't allow the lust part to be the root of that relationship, as in relationships I also believe you should always have and continue the lust for your partner, I believe it's healthy as it keeps the relationship intimately alive, steamy and hot.
Can anyone honestly say that they have never thought of their partners sexually when dating them, what they may be and feel like in bed. All the little icings that go with the imaginings of the mind sexually. Was it lust or the natural yearning of being in love, the feelings that come long before you're married. Be realistic, those feelings are real.
Tell me that you don't and I am convinced that you are lying. Isn't that thought a result of seeing or communicating with someone you believe is your intended partner who makes your heart flutter or is it because you are just happy to see her or him; no lust, no desires or no temptation?
I am of the impression that if that is the case that probably one is frigid until married,..:-((..no visual stimulation creating fantasies of your intended partner, right?...:-))
Nothing is wrong with the sexual side of love, it is what makes relationships pretty interesting and exciting. I need someone who is in love with me; my mind, my body, my heart, and my soul. All compliments each other and facilitates each other in making it a complete relationship that's worth it.
It will be no good if it is only for good sex because after that climax ends, where's the love? Can we talk, do you have my interests and what makes me happy at heart, can we do things together with passion; our goals, our dreams and our future together?
I maintain, it doesn't matter if you are rich or gorgeous but at the end of the day, are you happy with yourself; your life, your relationship, do you feel fulfilled? There are those who stays for the great sex, the money but are you really happy when all this is over?
Does the person who looks into your eyes, feel your soul and makes you happy beyond measure, it's most important. I'd walked away from a life of 'wealth' to keep my sanity if I'm not happy. Love has no price and so is happiness. I love being in love but it should never come with a price or conditions except to love unconditionally.
We walk around with unfulfilled lives pretending we are happy, settle for mediocre and some may say if the majority didn't settle there won't be no family units, but in your heart do you believe you should sacrifice your inner peace and happiness to suit the norm of the world?
Because it's easier to have a relationship than to be lonely, and so many ends in divorce because you bore it until you can't anymore though you know if would have eventually led to it, though some divorces are created by relationship realizing long after that they are not compatible, and selfishness, greed and mostly infidelity the forerunner of lust, temptation and lost of desire for the partner for all kinds of reasons.
Relationships are complicated and I often believe if you are not willing to go for the long haul after weighing all the impossibilities and possibilities don't get tangle up in it unless you are ready. You must be willing to compromise, it's not about you anymore but a team effort.
People tend to believe they can grow to love someone and I believe yes you can, you may not fall in love with someone at first sight but after getting to know them and learn their personality, you may eventually grow to love them totally, especially if it's unconditional love you're bringing to the table.
We tend to base our intentions on visuals; how the person looks, does he or she turns me on?, wealth etc and it's ok but in reality when looking for someone to spend your life with because I swear most persons when they meet someone that rock their boat they want to keep them forever. You must choose someone that can walk the distance with you, the real distance.
There may be some little conflicting of personality but we are all uniquely different trying to conglomerate our personalities, it's what makes life and love interesting. I don't want someone exactly like me, I'd be bored to heavens :-) I appreciate my uniqueness and in so doing I am and will appreciate yours much better.
Everyone has their yardstick on judging what their impression of love is, once it makes them feel peaceful and in tune with yourself holistically and you are extremely happy, that's all that matters. I can't tell you what love should be but what you see it as, it's what makes you feel as a person fulfilled. Some like the extra trimmings while to others it's the simple things that matters.
Have you ever found yourself thinking or attracted to someone and being drawn to that person for no distinct reason but simply lust? Have you ever found yourself falling in love probably for someone you wished later on you never did. Have you found yourself lusting for someone and do fall in love with them eventually and married them, happily ever after, fairy tale story and still going strong? Or was it love or lust?
Is there a far away contrast from lust and love? Or do they both compliment each other?
There are some who for some reason is caught up in relationship because of lust, nothing more to the relationship than good sex and a powerful attraction and chemistry.
However, I do believe, that you can lust after someone and fall in love with them, as long as you don't allow the lust part to be the root of that relationship, as in relationships I also believe you should always have and continue the lust for your partner, I believe it's healthy as it keeps the relationship intimately alive, steamy and hot.
Can anyone honestly say that they have never thought of their partners sexually when dating them, what they may be and feel like in bed. All the little icings that go with the imaginings of the mind sexually. Was it lust or the natural yearning of being in love, the feelings that come long before you're married. Be realistic, those feelings are real.
Tell me that you don't and I am convinced that you are lying. Isn't that thought a result of seeing or communicating with someone you believe is your intended partner who makes your heart flutter or is it because you are just happy to see her or him; no lust, no desires or no temptation?
I am of the impression that if that is the case that probably one is frigid until married,..:-((..no visual stimulation creating fantasies of your intended partner, right?...:-))
Nothing is wrong with the sexual side of love, it is what makes relationships pretty interesting and exciting. I need someone who is in love with me; my mind, my body, my heart, and my soul. All compliments each other and facilitates each other in making it a complete relationship that's worth it.
It will be no good if it is only for good sex because after that climax ends, where's the love? Can we talk, do you have my interests and what makes me happy at heart, can we do things together with passion; our goals, our dreams and our future together?
I maintain, it doesn't matter if you are rich or gorgeous but at the end of the day, are you happy with yourself; your life, your relationship, do you feel fulfilled? There are those who stays for the great sex, the money but are you really happy when all this is over?
Does the person who looks into your eyes, feel your soul and makes you happy beyond measure, it's most important. I'd walked away from a life of 'wealth' to keep my sanity if I'm not happy. Love has no price and so is happiness. I love being in love but it should never come with a price or conditions except to love unconditionally.
We walk around with unfulfilled lives pretending we are happy, settle for mediocre and some may say if the majority didn't settle there won't be no family units, but in your heart do you believe you should sacrifice your inner peace and happiness to suit the norm of the world?
Because it's easier to have a relationship than to be lonely, and so many ends in divorce because you bore it until you can't anymore though you know if would have eventually led to it, though some divorces are created by relationship realizing long after that they are not compatible, and selfishness, greed and mostly infidelity the forerunner of lust, temptation and lost of desire for the partner for all kinds of reasons.
Relationships are complicated and I often believe if you are not willing to go for the long haul after weighing all the impossibilities and possibilities don't get tangle up in it unless you are ready. You must be willing to compromise, it's not about you anymore but a team effort.
People tend to believe they can grow to love someone and I believe yes you can, you may not fall in love with someone at first sight but after getting to know them and learn their personality, you may eventually grow to love them totally, especially if it's unconditional love you're bringing to the table.
We tend to base our intentions on visuals; how the person looks, does he or she turns me on?, wealth etc and it's ok but in reality when looking for someone to spend your life with because I swear most persons when they meet someone that rock their boat they want to keep them forever. You must choose someone that can walk the distance with you, the real distance.
There may be some little conflicting of personality but we are all uniquely different trying to conglomerate our personalities, it's what makes life and love interesting. I don't want someone exactly like me, I'd be bored to heavens :-) I appreciate my uniqueness and in so doing I am and will appreciate yours much better.
Everyone has their yardstick on judging what their impression of love is, once it makes them feel peaceful and in tune with yourself holistically and you are extremely happy, that's all that matters. I can't tell you what love should be but what you see it as, it's what makes you feel as a person fulfilled. Some like the extra trimmings while to others it's the simple things that matters.
Does my lips tease you
Does my hips tempt you
Why do you look at me so lustfully
Like you want to slowly devour me
I say to you go, go on walking
If it's your thoughts and not your heart speaking
You are caught up in deep temptation
Such lustful and delicious infatuation
This will only lead to an unfulfilled climax
Can't be with you if my heart is not relaxed
I need someone who loves me exclusively
Not someone who wants me for their cravings momentarily
Written by Dc Perez Copyrighted 2009/07/25
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