Monday, May 25, 2009

25 RANDOM THINGS ABOUT ME..

1. I am the last and the baby in a family of 3 sisters and 3 brothers.

2. I greet each Day with a welcome and positive feeling. - as long as I get up and can move my toes and fingers I’m good to go, Good Day World it is! And ready to take on the challenge whatever it brings.

3. I‘ll turn the house upside down in a jiffy. - all because I am feeling down and need my spirit uplift and find joy in changing around the house furnishings, I once had a friend who on visits used to tell me, ‘one day I’ll come here and find all the furnishing outside’..lol..It’s a de-stresser for me.

4. I am a very positive person, - I love to encourage people that no matter how dreary life appears there’s a rainbow around the corner and there’s always another tomorrow, I am hopeful I’ll always see another tomorrow and if I don’t, my life was not planned to be in that tomorrow.

5. I am a very loyal, honest and devoted person, - whether friendship or in love. That’s the contents and aura of my soul, I am no less than what I exude, no pretense. I’ll tell you like it is, no sugarcoating, people are drawn to me because of my confidentiality, (don’t need to tell someone about another, it’s none of their business) and my positive and down to earth compassionate nature, which some take for granted, however if I do find out you are out to use me, I’ll forgive you but you’ll sure lose my friendship. Take heed!

6. I am in love with me, not vainfully. - I have to love me in order to love you, or I’ll be fooling myself, I couldn’t love unconditionally if I didn’t love myself. At one time in my life, I was an introvert, never expressive until I went into a deep depression and almost lost my soul to satan, however I’ve bounced back and in His shining glory, I’m a new person and possess a different spirit that can climb any mountain, tread every valley and hills, touch the air and clouds, yeah right! I am dreaming, yes - I have big dreams..

7. I am not a bitter person, very forgiving. - I keep nothing bad/negative on my mind/heart because it makes one resentful, bitter and that’s wasted energies, negative energies. I’m sure to have a good sleep at nights because I really don't go to sleep with a ‘heavy’ heart despite all the confusion life can sometimes throw at you.. I usually joke, if you don’t snore hard when you’re asleep, you’re not sleeping joyfully, I snore, yes I do, I am told..lol

8. I have been married and divorced - my son’s father and I remained very good friends, one of the most amicable divorces, I don’t believe we’d be good friends if I didn’t open my heart and be forgiving, knowing the way we parted.. We have to let go of all our bitterness and disappointments in life and love to allow our hearts to heal and to go on to the next stage in life. Look at it as a chapter in your life, turn the leaf, a new page. No animosity, a feeling that gives you a line in the middle of your forehead that only Botox injection can remove..lol

9. I wrote a book of my first and only pregnancy, son and only child in 1998 and has it on CD but never got around to do a full print out, it’s entitled, “For this Child I prayed”.

10. Most of my computer skills were self-taught and acquired during my most challenging times in my life, I was very hurt and depressed so I invested in a PC and taught myself to use it, I taught myself graphics, web designing, and my Editing skills came from writing my first book. I used my negative energies at that time and turned it into positive energies, which also means I don’t regret being placed in that trying situation of my life. Lessons well learned.

11. My son is the love of my life - and I believe he was sent in my life for a reason and as a cushion to what I had to face during a period in my life, look around you and you’ll see everything and person who enters your life has a role to play in your life, no matter how trivial and sometimes pestering it/they may seem, they are there for a reason, or maybe a season or a lifetime.

12. I admit I talk a lot and write a lot, - the result of not having expressed myself for a long time, being silent too long with my emotions and feelings, now I’ve let go and have become very expressive breaking all my silence that was pent up in me for so long. .It’s important to take time to listen and I also learn the importance of talking, but only talking to the right people..

13. I love and embrace humanity, regardless of race, - I love all the flavors He created and am not bias to race, creed or class, everyone is important in their own way. I love the healing powers of Yoga and Reiki so I practice it and is always looking for ways to improve myself holistically and be of influence positively and to help others achieve that oneness with themselves and their spirit.

14. I really love animals - but I am afraid to own one because if it dies I’ll cry like a hyena..lol.. so I take none home but play with people’s, they are very loving creatures, if one takes time to be absorbed into their love, I had a fish which I loved and had died but could not flush it down the toilet as some people do, so I placed it in a match box and buried it with flowers placed on the spot where it was buried...

15. I 'went' near death in 1990 - and came back, an episode I grew from in my life, everything happens for a reason.

16. There’s nothing I regret doing/happening in my life, - they all turned out as a play, in sequence from one episode to the other, actually my life is like a book/movie filled with some suspense, thriller, love scenes, drama, comedy, everything combine and we all hope the movie ends up really good, don’t we?, I say let it play out, hopefully in the end it will be a good movie, a good life, Be still and know I am God. Let it flow. My experiences were positive life lessons and has sure made me into a better individual.

17. I am a whisperer of good tidings, for the world, - I pray silently and incessantly and for anyone who needs a little encouragement in life..

18. I love music but can’t play a tune,..lol.. - own a guitar, keyboard, about to buy a drum set for my son, music is a comfort to my soul, I like almost every music, my favorite however is Salsa, the drumming tantalizes me, and African drumming wakes up my haunting spirit to dance and just be absorbed into the rhythm, I own tons and tons of songs.

19. I hate pretentious, hateful, jealous people. - They are a vexation to my spirit,. I surround myself with only positive people, hence I don’t have many friends, they are very few. and those I have and keep are very genuine ones..

20. I haven’t had many boyfriends - but fell in love with the wrong ones, lessons learnt, well learnt.

21. I love to laugh endlessly, a very joyful person. - It’s laughter that gives me that positive attitude, we must stop and smell the coffee/rose sometimes, life is not about seriousness alone and even in seriousness one can find a laugh.

22. I love my mum and dad very much, - they have instilled in me some values, principles and qualities that are hard to come by these days, I don’t regret the way they raised me though I was vex with some of their rules and I haven’t strayed much..lol. Thanks dad for your 'copish' and strict attitude. My dad was a cop.

23. I don’t go partying much, - I've been to disco/dancing only five times in my life nor do I enjoy large crowds, I feel intimidated in crowds, I am also afraid of heights, enclosed spaces and going on boat trips, I sound like no fun but I make up for that in many other ways..lol. I love the outdoors, picnics and nature.

24. My son and I celebrate our birthdays one week apart, he was my birthday gift...lol

25. I believe we are all here for a significant purpose and not by accident, - our purpose must be fulfilled, no one dies before it's their time, it's only when it happens we can't face the stark, cold reality that that person's time on earth was fulfilled even though they might have left in a cruel and terrible way. Even Jesus left in a cruel way, and his purpose was fulfilled. That's just how some of our drums will beat. I don’t believe in accidents nor luck, just fate and destiny.

LIFE IS GOOD,..

LIFE IS GREAT..

LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE IT'S YOUR LAST DAY..

HAPPINESS IS A STATE OF MIND

Copyrighted Dc Perez 2009

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