There is someone out there for everyone. Would you believe there is someone alive who loves every fibre of/in your being, and won't like you to change anything about you; Nothing? They'll accept you just as you are. Your distinct personality that mesmerizes them yet flows with theirs; that someone who is the unique and perfect match for you. You are the 'essence' that he/she smells near or afar - that unique aroma...Your Soul Mate.
Sometimes we spend our life trying to change who we are designed to be, based on our influences around us and what we grew up thinking is ideal. We form our future on what we emulate of others, who we'd like to be/become.
Even in trying to meet our 'dream' partners; the one we create in our minds, we try to become what we assume he'd/she likes, and yes no one likes 'negative' things about someone, yet I believe when that person doesn't match, it's because that person is not for you but that negative may suit someone else just right:)
Then when we peel off our true shell/self; the real person comes alive-- the real you, the one that he/she may just love or do not like:) Falling in love is about being yourself, loving yourself firstly, accepting who you are, and are designed to be-- we try so hard to be a particular image which we have/created in our heads based on an external assumption, not necessarily what we feel deep inside the core of our hearts.
Things that you may assume negative in you and you'd like to change, someone is willing to accept you that way; just the way you are----it means that if you found someone who accepts you the way you are - you will probably love and appreciate yourself better - the true power of/in love.
We sometimes spend our life moving from partner to partner, some of which we spend years with and then realize they are not the one, too incompatible - and yes if we should wait forever - we'll never have families, because we are waiting on the 'right' one - but I believe there is that perfect someone.
There are people who go around in circles, had partners and got married, spent most of their years together, split and then got married again to someone else, then finally realize this is it! - finally you have found your soul mate - sometimes it happens in the later half/quarter of your life journey. Some never will, yet some do. Some find them without all those efforts.
Probably you have already found that someone; when he/she looks at you, he/she sees his/her soul mirror, you actually are bonded and flow really smoothly together, you are about to say something and he/she finishes your sentence:) a poem in the making here.
We spend endless years searching, probably I did/do and sometimes the person is not far away, or probably that person came by and you never noticed 'cause you are looking/judging on physical, status, color, etc...those particular standards:)..The ones we live by, and pass on to our kids, the repeated and continuous cycle, therefore your kid may not marry someone based on size, shape, color, job, status and the list goes on.
They are mind our matter identifications, it's what you believe is the ultimate. Every cloth in the store has a buyer. When you meet your soul mate you will know instantly because you've met them before, (please don't ask me how and when, you'll know:)---he/she seems oh so familiar; everything about them--kinda dejavu experience-- and I don't mean those corny lines some guys throw at you, the "I met you sometime/where before but can't figure out where"--those silly pick up lines:)--your soul mate won't say so to you because you'll both know without speaking a word!
We spend so much time 'fine tuning/polishing' up ourselves to meet the mate we want to attract when there is a mate that will look past our superfluous appearance/act - the one we fine tuned and groomed - the ones that can peel off after a time--instead he/she may look skin deep and see your soul beyond that 'act' and discover the true you--that is what lasts - that's what makes relationships work - and last.
Most marriages are breaking up over superficial things --money, appearance, and those conditional things--so when those conditions are not met---we take a dive and run hard----out goes the marriage.
When last have you heard your partner say to you, 'I love you to your soul'--if he does/did, don't let him/her go------If he/she says 'I love you'--it may be conditional:)--let him/her add 'to your soul' to it----that's a lifetime promise and goal----it's unconditional----he/she loves you come what may--'til the end of time--to your soul--to every string and fibre in your body; to the veins that carry the blood through every part of your body---if he/she was blood; she/he'll be the one flowing through you to keep you alive.:)
Until you can hear those words don't trust the 'I love you'--or 'you know I love you' it must echo these others words:)) "I love you to your soul" --the 'I love you' is too conditional:)
I am sure some of you may have found your soul echo; the one that resonates to your soul - yeah he/she is your soul mate--Happy journeying, that's what soul mates do--they flow with you on your journey--free flowing and in sync...
To be continued...
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